Take a pan, and add jaggery and 1cup + 2-3 tbsp of water. And keep on low heat until jaggery dissolve. Other side, wash daliya and keep aside.
Heat ghee into pressure cooker and add washed daliya, and saute for a min. Then add jaggery water and simmer for 2-3min. Then cover with lid and do 3 whistle. Let it cool down a little and open it. Add fennel seeds crushed and cardamom powder. Mix well and saute for a min. Turn off the heat. Then cover with lid.
Soak daal for 15-20min. Add into pressure cooker and add socked rajma, add salt to taste and use 2.5 part of water. Do 4 whistle and let it cool down completely. Mix with wooden beater and keep aside.
Heat ghee into a pan, and add cumin seeds, garlic paste, ginger paste and red chilli, saute for a while and add 1tsp of butter. Just mix once and add cooked daal.
Now add dry masala and salt if require. Mix well and simmer for 4-5min. Then add remaining butter and mix well. Simmer for a min.
Last add milk, mix and simmer for more 2min. Take a plate, add lapsi, garnish with dryfruit, put some ghee for lapsi, and take a bowl, add daal makhani and garnish with dash of butter. Serve hot.
