Now mix the parippu, bananas, the sarkara(molasses) and the third extract of coconut milk and boil in a thick bottomed pan stirring continuously. When the mixture is boiled,add the second extract of milk and continue stirring. Now add the fried cashes,kismis,coconut slices,spices powder,a pinch of salt.Mix everything well and add the first extract of coconut milk,boil for 2 more minutes and take out from fire. If the payasam is too thick, you can add a cup or two of dairy milk before adding...