Make sugar syrup with sugar and water mentioned. Boil it it gets bit sticky but not very thick. Other hand start to sprinkle milk on besan, mix with fingers and leave it 10 mins. Cook the besan on medium heat in heavy bottomed pan. Cook it it leaves an aroma and is golden brown by stiring well. Add khoya to this mixture, saute few mins. Keep adding oil or ghee while cooking the besan.