Now add the dates,cashew,kismiss and badam,fried in ghee along with the balance ghee into the above payasam. Dissove the milk maid into two cups of milk and add to the above.Add the spices powder followed by badam powder and cashew powder. Add a pinch of salt. Mix everything well. Add more dairy milk if the payasam is too thick to the required consistency. Take out from fire and serve hot.Yummy dates payasam s ready. It can b decorated with powdered form of chocolate biscuits.