For it's topping, grind the toasted peanut in mortar and pestle. If you have peanuts with skin it is easy to peel the skin after toasting. No need to grind if you are using sesame seeds. If using sesame seeds, you can lightly toast it first in a pan to add toast-like flavor. Mix the peanuts/sesame seeds with sugar and any remaining grated coconut in a bowl.